I feel you in a way. I have big breasts and although I identify as female and don’t have a desire to cover them I have to wear bras otherwise I’m too uncofortable (in many levels). But wearing a bra is also uncomfortable. Especially if I want a strapless one. They are very tight in order to support the weight and I hate and love them at the same time. I have to say I’m envious at times of women with small breasts. I wish you all the best with any decision you take!
I don’t bind due to health reasons making it unsafe for me. I use a sports bra one size smaller and a baggy overshirt, and I have large breasts, they become invisible with this method. I also can’t wait to get top surgery. Maybe you could try something like what I do?
Yeh I think I’ll invest in a sports bra. I’ve been working from home much more lately, so trying not to bind whenever I’m at home – it just causes a fright for people who pop by!
I feel you in a way. I have big breasts and although I identify as female and don’t have a desire to cover them I have to wear bras otherwise I’m too uncofortable (in many levels). But wearing a bra is also uncomfortable. Especially if I want a strapless one. They are very tight in order to support the weight and I hate and love them at the same time. I have to say I’m envious at times of women with small breasts. I wish you all the best with any decision you take!
<3 <3 bodies, aye!
I had the reverse.
My boobs started hurting, so I decided to get a breast reduction.
Then I was hit by a wave of ‘now I can pass as male!’
I did not realise I was genderfluid because I was repressing the sadness of not being able to pass as masculine.
(even though I had repeatedly cried in dressing rooms because masculine clothes did not look right on me)
Oh wow, that’s so cool!! Our bodies and minds are so funny the way we reveal/suppress things at different times
I don’t bind due to health reasons making it unsafe for me. I use a sports bra one size smaller and a baggy overshirt, and I have large breasts, they become invisible with this method. I also can’t wait to get top surgery. Maybe you could try something like what I do?
Yeh I think I’ll invest in a sports bra. I’ve been working from home much more lately, so trying not to bind whenever I’m at home – it just causes a fright for people who pop by!
I hope it helps.